I'll give you one example for now and write a little more on this "subject" matter a little later. I was speaking to a person when I first met them and introduced myself saying my first and last name. There next question was "where do you practice"? I said "practice" in a questioning manner. Catching on to what they were eluding to I then said " depends on what sport or activity I'm doing or training for. They smiled and then said "no"! what synagogue do you go to for services?" I smiled and cordially said "I'm not of that religion. The person a day or so later so me and "apologized" for assuming that I was of the faith.
I'm perplexed at times the narrow mindedness and thoughtless statements people make based on a name. Too often names are mispronounced, spelled wrong, and in this case used to determine a whole host of qualities in a person.
It's fascinating to think. I will share more examples in a later post. Hope that makes sense to you. My message therefore is don't judge a person by their name, get to know them and to understand them before assuming they are this or that based on their given name.
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